We need to get on with the story. It’s a couple of days after Thanksgiving and for
the last couple of weeks I have been touting the value of counting your blessings
to all who chose to listen. We have the
ZestFest Spicy Food bog and eblast where we expressed thanks to all of the
companies and people that come together in that celebration of big
flavors. Then we have my Transforming
Reality blog where you are probably reading this and the several facebook pages
I have for different alter egos. All in
all, my “give thanks” messages had “interaction” with a few thousand
people. The question is did it make
anyone’s life better?
That is the point after all. I really feel like I have been on a mission
or a long time to find ways to be a fountain of happiness and wellbeing in the
World. As I have said in other places,
my biggest satisfaction with my Rastafarian alter ego, Rasjohn (now more often
known as Rasjohnmon), owner of the very popular website, REGGAE.com, was having
a platform to speak to a very large and diverse cultural and ethnic audience. Few knew whether I was black of white
although the hints implied that I was probably a Jamaican Rastamon living somewhere
in the Blue Mountains of JA with a good internet connection - smokin herb all
day while listening to the best new and old Roots Reggae one drop tunes and
pontificating online about the Oneness of all humanity. It was the message that made Bob Marley a
cultural icon – his music covered every emotion from anger to love but woven throughout
was an unwavering message of hope and self determination. “Don’t let the system bring you down”. With my words and song selections reaching
people in the farthest reaches of the planet, I echoed that message.
When I sold the site, it was time, past the time
of its prime as an influencer. I was
still getting millions of hits a week but that was from often more casual music
fans rather than people who felt part of a “culture” – a belief structure about
how the world could be. As recounted in
my book “Magic at the Edge of Creation”, I went through a rough period from the
time I left being very much a part of the music and media scene in New York
City and headed to what I thought would be laidback tropical shores in
Florida. I have much to be thankful for
as always in those years of my adventure.
Reggae.com gave me direct access to the thriving Reggae Music community
in South Florida where there are more transplanted Jamaicans than most anywhere
else in the World. I got much satisfaction
out of the acceptance I was given by often very tightly knit groups of Rasta’s
and others heavily involved in their culture, always with the specter of
slavery and colonialism at the back of their minds. I believe it is because even though I must
admit to occasional lapses in my determined feelings of Unity or better said
Inity, my energy was filled with the love of the music and message and thus my whiteness
became disassociated with the perceived transgressions of my race. I can’t deny that the sense of them and me is
unusual when one is one of a particular color skin amidst a few thousand of a different
color. For me it was a validation though
and that gave me great satisfaction – there I was, an anomaly but more a
curiosity than something distasteful or unwanted. A world in which “the color of a man’s skin
is of no more importance than the color to their eyes” is possible.
The “news” is filled with stories telling of a
much more unpleasant and unjust world. Do we want to believe in that reality or do we
choose to believe in the “ideal”?
Unfortunately many people do not believe there is a choice. They accept the media vision of reality as
canon. Many believe that the way to fix
things is to protest and make sure no one is allowed to forget the wrongs of
the past. I happen to believe in the
opposite – I see remembering and memorializing as affirmations of those
wrongs. One gentleman I had several
interactions with on facebook felt to turn a blind eye on a history of racism
would prevent its eradication. It is
exactly the opposite. As long as we keep
stirring up the resentments and angers of the past, we will have trouble moving
on. We MUST forgive and forget and allow
a new vision to take root.
And so, back to thanksgiving. The reason it is so important is that it
helps keep our attention and focus on the “wanted” instead of the “unwanted”. We need to be thankful that with each day that
passes, the world can be a little better place if we are determined to add our
positive energy to the mix. I know that
is the reason I was inspired to write my book – to help people realize they
have choice, free will. You have the
chance and the ability to shape the destiny of the planet. Everyone has it but most are using their
energy to maintain the status quo by believing in the world described by the
news media. There will be less gun
violence if there is less talk of guns and killing. It’s not putting your head
in the sand, it is decreasing the validation of that world reality.
An unarmed kid gets gunned down by a cop and it becomes
just another TV drama. Anger is fueled. Resentment increases. The hopelessness of a failed society
prevails. It becomes a self-fulfilling
philosophy generating similar incidents to validate the anger as though it
takes the anger to fix the problem. It
is the anger and the fear it generates that is the problem. Do not think by any means that we are saying
the anger is unjustified – that’s not the case.
The point is staying with the anger will only fan the flames of the
problem. We are not slipping into chaos
or a nightmare world as long as that is not the world we envision. For every tragedy and setback be thankful for
the millions of people that are living their lives with love and hope. That’s what you don’t want to forget. Put your energy there. Be one of the ones not living in fear or
anger who believes each day things are getting just a little better. Be the person who will never give up their
hope or stop looking for more to be thankful for because you realize that you are
totally justified in this viewpoint because you are help positively shape the
World… you are a wielder of the Magic at the edge of Creation!
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